according to Murphy ( not Joseph)

It's better to have a horrible ending than to have horrors without end.

You said you have something to talk about.
Reading between the lines, I think you might be hiding some problems.

It might be financing, divorce, HIV positive, another child or something like that?
It's so insane to synthesize another pain.

Hard times, come again no more.
There's no wild boar bigger than a mountain.